Getting Even More Involved as a Parent

 

How to Help Your Child Succeed in School (in Small, Everyday Ways)

19 August, 2025

 

 

Back-to-school season is a fresh start—for kids and for parents. And while teachers and schools play a huge role in learning, research shows that parent involvement is one of the strongest predictors of a child’s success—even more than income, background, or a parent’s own level of education.

 

The good news? Helping your child do better in school doesn’t have to mean hours of tutoring or expensive programs. Small, consistent habits at home and simple ways of showing up can make all the difference.

 

Here are a few proven ways to boost your child’s confidence, performance, and love of learning.

1. Show Up and Stay Connected

  • Attend parent-teacher conferences to hear directly about progress and challenges.

  • Volunteer when you can—even small roles like chaperoning a field trip or helping with a classroom activity show your child that school matters.

  • Be present at events (concerts, science fairs, sports). Your cheering from the sidelines means more than you know.

Students with supportive parents throughout their school years are 81% more likely to graduate high school. 

 

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2. Make School Talk Part of Everyday Life

  • Ask about your child’s day in specific ways: “What was one thing you learned today?” or "What was your favorite part of the school day?" and really listen.

  • Help with homework by asking guiding questions instead of giving the answers.

  • Discuss future courses and goals.

Kids whose parents talk about schoolwork are 44% more likely to pursue college or training after high school.

3. Set High (but Realistic) Expectations

  • Let your child know you believe they can succeed, and that you're there to support their goals.

  • Encourage progress, not perfection: celebrate small improvements as much as big wins.

Studies show that students with parents who expect more are far more likely to stay in school and graduate.

4. Build Strong Routines at Home

  • Keep regular bedtimes and morning routines so kids can arrive at school ready to learn.

  • Designate a quiet, distraction-free spot for homework.

  • Monitor attendance and talk openly about why being present every day matters.

Students with involved parents average a 98% attendance rate, which is strongly tied to higher achievement.

 

5. Support Emotional Well-Being

  • Listen when your child shares worries or struggles, and validate their feelings.

  • Encourage healthy stress-relievers: exercise, hobbies, or even just downtime together.

Kids with supportive parents report higher self-esteem, less anxiety, and greater motivation to succeed.

The Bottom Line

 

Remember: you don’t have to be perfect, and you certainly don’t need to do it all. What matters most is being consistent, supportive, and engaged. By showing up, setting expectations, and creating routines at home, you’re not just helping your child do better in school—you’re giving them skills and confidence that will last a lifetime.